I know how vulnerable it can feel to explore intimacy — especially in a world that doesn’t always make space for curiosity, nuance, or pleasure. Lucky for you, I’m a rebel. 😉 I’ve always been drawn to what lives beneath the surface — the taboo, the intimate, the untamed. Even as a teenager, I dreamed about creating spaces where people could explore sex, pleasure, and connection without shame. I never wanted anyone to feel dirty, broken, or “too much” just for being curious about their own desires.

That curiosity led me into a life of learning, healing, and teaching. I studied Gender & Sexuality Studies in undergrad, where I ravenously sought out classes on communication and gender, masculinities, the philosophy of love and sex, the history of sex in Western society, human rights, peace psychology, marriage and family relations, and more. I worked at my university’s women’s center, received 40+ hours of trauma-informed care training, and taught first-year students about enthusiastic consent and being an active bystander. After college, I worked in harm reduction — learning the science of STI prevention and the realities of safer sex practices.

I later became a licensed massage therapist and have spent over four years working intimately with people and their nervous systems — helping them understand how their bodies store emotion, how pain patterns form, and how healing can happen through touch.

This work isn’t just academic for me, either. I’ve explored kink, BDSM, tantra, group play, polyamory, and had a beautifully wild hoe phase — all while doing the deep work of healing from sexual trauma and unraveling toxic relationship patterns. Today, I’m in a thriving partnership with a sex life that feels playful, passionate, and fully aligned with who I am.

My approach to intimacy mentorship is body-based, trauma-informed, and completely shame-free. I value safety and honesty above all else, because I know from experience: healing happens when we stop hiding. It lives on the other side of feeling — and you’re allowed to feel all of it here.

I work best with curious individuals and couples craving more depth — the kind of people who are ready to get honest, who want to understand their pleasure without shame, and who are willing to show up for the process of becoming more fully themselves.

If something in you feels lit up reading this — trust that spark. The path is just beginning, and I’d be delighted to walk a little of it with you.

With excitement and passion,
Meaghan Szilagyi